Give it TIME :-)

Time.... its precious.. very precious... it flies.. but there are phases in life where its very difficult to pass and survive through it... And those moments are the worst where we just wait for the time to pass away...

Certain moments are so deadly that we wish we could have a fast forward button in life and just press that to move on... Such times comes in everybody's life.. They are called testing times... where we actually realize the value of our people who are close to us.. Those who are not there for you may not always be wrong... we may not know their part of story why they are unavailable... Anyhow time never stops for anybody but life sometimes does...

Life... Wow! its  a definition which changes for us every next moment... it teaches us so much... It keeps changing... e.g., I said its beautiful at one point.. at the other it was eventful... then the next moment it was adventurous... So, life is the most difficult word to define... The most meaningless yet the most meaningful word.. 

People say who give up their lives are cowards... I don't agree to that... dying is equally difficult or even more..

Running away... escaping... are still easier but to face life or to end life are two extremes... Being Alive and facing it, I personally believe is the most difficult in tough situations!

In recent past, one of my close friend was going through a break-up.. where she was cheated by a guy.. I know how difficult it can be for somebody who is emotionally so badly attached... every moment is just impossible to survive.. physical pains are far more easier to deal with.. but internal wounds kill you each second... with every damn breath...

"Give it time" its easier said than done because its only the time which one just cant give... patience... mental strength... physical caliber all goes in vain... negativity attracts... mental instability comes... no hunger, no thirst, no sleep, no focus forget about positivity!

Heart-break is the worst thing to deal with... It makes one feel weak, really weak.. mentally and physically... the self worth goes to zero when a person is rejected by someone... these accidents are realities of life... which not only shows us ground but bury us inside it so deep.. that we name it as depression... from where it is a real brave task to come out and bounce back... that's the real test of all your will and strength...

But, the moment you realize you are the best and deserve all your love for yourself which you were wasting on wrong person... you understand that the one who left you was not worthy enough... with that realization comes a super-power inside which makes you a new person... Its a rebirth actually... rediscovering your own self...  its like in the same life you are born again... A complete NEW you... with immense strength and power... unbeatable... Invincible!

Stronger the pain you carry inside you harder the person you become... So, if you feel you are going through the worst pain of your life... get ready to be the best.. Something you never thought of!

As they say time is the best healer.. It heals almost everything.... today my friend is also fine... yes, it took her time... but now she is recovering well... time does heal everything.. 

These internal wounds are somewhat similar to external ones in one thing... they both take their own time to recover... no matter what you do... whichever medicine you take... medicines can fasten the process of cure but it takes its own minimum predefined time to heal... 

These all pains teaches us- "what cannot kill us, makes us stronger.." These are the lessons of life... that if you are not wrong still you can be treated badly... Not everybody is same... people are different... practical.. rational... run on logic... they have motives even behind emotions... Such cheaters makes emotional people stronger... sometimes even stone strong.. they makes one realize that there are no buyers for your tears.. Its a practical world and there is no place for emotional fools..

In a way, I would say its good.. these instances teaches a person the lessons which people might gain in years or even may not... they makes one very strong emotionless or at least they teaches how to create a shell around you for further protection!

God, you made a beautiful world... but you made thorns to protect roses... then why there aren't any thorns with emotional people to hurt the cheaters! I need an answer for this.. 

Love you God.. please take care of my people.. Muuaaaaah :))

Learn. Swim. Move!

Its my longing desire now to learn swimming... I dream of it every night in my sleep... I dream of it with open eyes...

Yes, i am making an effort too to begin with it... But I m so much into the thought that I have started relating swimming to everything else I do..

For say my job.. I have recently joined this new organisation which is a different industry... I am now in Banking from a Media background... So, things are very different here...

I have always heard people saying banking is very difficult and boring... Its toughest place to work for a sales person... Well, no comments on their mindset.. But, I believe for a person who loves to work hard, earn money and grow professionally nothing is better than banking.. Its no jazz.. No cloud.. No fooling around... Its a REAL GROUND!

Now, since my mind is preoccupied with swimming and  new work place I tend to link them both.. :-)
I really visualize a pool where i m thrown to learn swimming and all my colleagues are expert swimmers enjoying the dive.. Some are comparatively new but since they are from banking industry they know how to swim... For them only this pool is new.. But for me I don't know how to swim...

Now, the challenge is training... Since, at mid senior level 98% of new joinees come from banking industry only.. The training is also imparted by keeping that in mind... It is similar to my MBA course where I was from B.Sc background and accounts & economics were taught by keeping in mind the commerce background people.. It becomes a real struggle when you have to learn from very basics where experts are competing with you.. 
Now, similarly, I have been given instructions here too but not taught practically how to swim.. All i m trying to do it disturbing every swimmer crossing around to learn the technique where they all are very busy in focusing on their task... No one is supposed to bother why i have got so many questions regarding every new thing... May be because i need to know it.. Why & how its happening... I am moving my myself in the pool but techniques are something I still need to learn & master.. Its about survival of the fittest!

Pheww.. Lets see.. Where will this take me.. I m just trying to be positive... :-)

God, no one understands better than you what I m into at this moment.. Please give me courage... I have my faith on you.. And take care of my people... Love you :-) muuaaah..

Life is like a game of Contra!

Sometimes, when I start writing I find it very difficult to frame my thoughts into words… But here I am again trying to jot down what is there in my mind.. :-)

Today, while sipping my morning coffee and thinking about life… this thought clicked my mind, how similar our lives are to the game we used to play “Contra”…

I started exploring the thought and realized yes, Indeed it is!

The only difference is…. in a game we get warnings like alert, difficulty level, new weapon, bonus points, gifts, accidents.. Here in life we face it first then we realize what it was :P

Coming to the comparison part, I feel I have grown up from Tetris to Contra… there I just compared life and troubles… Here, I have a lot more… :-)

So, here it starts, when we start the game… we adjust with the surroundings just like life… In every new scenario we adjust first school then college, office… We develop a comfort level with the weapons we are gifted with and realize their strengths… In game our weapons are the gun, bombs, some bonus weapons, our ability to run fast and jump high... Whereas, in life our weapons are our mind, creativity, persistence, patience, sharpness of mind and not to forget our thought process… In both life & contra we win if we feel we can… Positive attitude & will decides our destiny.

Now, when we are well versed with the weapons we have, we feel more confident to use them in any scenario, that is what we call experience in real life and new level in game. We might win the new level or we might realize we need to sharpen us and develop better grip over our strengths to pass through it…

Coming on to the similarities in brief as m getting late for office-

•          In both, game & life we keep on running after earning…. Points & Money!

•          In both, we are still running even after knowing the end is same for everyone…

•          We don’t realize while playing/living that what matters is to enjoy the game/Life rather than just earning numbers/Money and taking stress

•         Not always but many times we run our of energy/health in the race of earning more points and we don’t realize we waste whatever we earned when it comes to energy/health

Well, I guess I’ll come up with more similarities on this on sometime when I'll have no office day… 

But, one difference which I would love to mention is Life is any day better than a Contra game, In the game you get 3 chances after which your game is over… Here in life, you get a new chance every day to relive and change things… you cant undo many things but that’s what life is…. Look forward and change it for the better…

Change things which you don’t like, alter yourself if you think you need to…. Realize, its not over yet.. You have thousand things…. Miracles do happen….

And in the end, I would like to say-

Life is like a Disney movie... 

Miracles do Happen, Hard work pays even if its delayed, good people do exist, Luck favors the brave, there is always a villain... a king.. a prince and a princess and No one can ever change your destiny if you are real...

Appreciate Life and have Faith.. Get up and keep moving… you may not get these many chances in one game of contra, but you have many in real life… :-)

Now, I’ll also get up and get ready for my office….

Love you God.. Muaah :-)

Note- I’ll proof read it in evening! Till the time avoid the typos :P