Nowadays, I see everyone in my friend’s list is getting
either committed or married or engaged…. Well, congrats to all of them… And may
God bless them… But, at times I feel, are they in hurry or I am being
indifferent towards this marriage thing… God Knows!
I seriously feel, I need to do well in my career…. Though I
am not anti-marriage, I’ll certainly get settled... but, I am not in hurry…. I am career- focused right now…. And that bothers me more than
anything else…
They say, priorities change once you are married…. Well, may
be… I dunno…. M not married yet so no comments… It might be right…
Now days, I find my committed friends giving advices to me
that I should also get married or engaged or something like that…. During this
discussion, I discovered a male mindset
which I found very disappointing.
While discussing, a guy said that gals who travel in their
jobs are not marriageable and 2 others supported him…. Which shocked me…. hurt me and badly disappointed
me… for me I am a girl who loves to travel!
Now, my simple question is guys can grow in their lives,
guys can work wherever they like, guys can travel wherever they want for work….
Then WHY CAN’T GIRLS?
If a guy expects his girl to support him for his career
moves, his decisions, his opportunities then WHY CAN’T A GIRL EXPECT THE SAME?
In which world am I living…. Which century… which environment….
Where people have changed their dress up sense, lifestyles, culture but the
thought process is still so small and biased….
In the end in any relationship, whether it’s parental,
couple, friendship, brother-sister or any other relation, its all about faith
and trust… If it’s not there then relationship is of no use…
I have seen guys and girls cheating on their better halves
in normal routine lives with a very settled boring jobs… what I feel is people
cheat when they are bored of their monotonous life while for some people it’s
simply their character which can’t be changed…. What is there to do with
travel!
One should feel content and satisfied in their lifestyle and
it can only be there when they will do well in their personal and professional
lives…. I agree, with time priorities do change but does that mean you stop
growing in life?
Every individual needs their space to grow, whether it’s
personal or professional, whether it’s a girl or a guy…
We live in a world where we are raised in a family where
guys and girls are treated as equal…. They are provided with equal facilities
and equal respect…. they dream individually…. To grow in their lives… At least,
I can say this for myself…. I am really happy and proud to say that my family gave me and my
brothers kinda upbringing where we
understand guys and gals deserves equal space…
I dunno why, I am so disappointed with this kind of
mentality of guys…. I feel sorry for them…. Honesty, If they are like this then
where are we moving… what kinda upbringing their kids will ever get…. Where our
country will move…. Gosh! Even though guys pretend to be so modern and open
minded that they wanna walk with a lady wearing a pair of jeans but not an independent
outlook towards their career!
Well, may be it’s only me who thinks this way. But yes, It’s indeed sad...!
